Hi darlings..
I'm doing tarot readings as my part time job. I mean, I'm quite good with tarot readings.. so you guys can ask me if you want them..
Read:
Tarot cards are not evil.
Tarot cards don't tell da future [as in, it's just a projected future. Can be changed depending on what you do next.]
Tarot cards are not dangerous.
I've got customers already =] so.. whether you want it or not depends on you..
Blessed be.
PS: you can call and tell me or email me at simpeijun89@hotmail.com [I only do local ones.. meaning for Singaporeans as of now]
Monday, January 28, 2008
Thursday, January 24, 2008
ok.. let's talk about secondary life.. I guess those were the best years.. I was stressed but I wasn't stressed like till I wanna die. [at least I had time to play after school =D] In case you guys don't know, I was from XMS. There, I found my best friend, my nice gor, my best chinese teacher, my best buddies.. my best partner =]I took 10 subjects. It really wasn't v tough.. I loved everything I did. [can't understand why ppl don't like history. it's so interesting!] my results? uh.. it's not that I don't want to tell but some people might think that I'm proud or something. So, smart smart Jasmine now knows she can't just say everything she like. Ask if you're dying to know.. I will tell. hmm.. but I have results good enough to go any school ba. Sec 1-slack slack slack. =] well i can still remember the first day of school, meeting dorcas.. she looked really cool and aloof but she's a nice gal. it's da first year I see so many guys in da sch.. so yea, I had lotsa crushes =p but they were really just silly stuff and =] didn't really bother much about them. I joined band and I honestly honestly love flute [gg to buy one soon.] I love balance and through band, I learn about balancing..harmony, unity and lotsa nice things from various conductors. haha.. i remember the first camp and da seniors conducted a fire drill =_= but it was quite fun cos the SAJB peeps did it too. and you see a bunch of peeps at da parade sq all going 'what the hell?' and complaints rained in from neighbours da nxt morning. I love da games and da star gazing times.. it's really nice to lie at da parade sq there and look up at da starry sky [wanna do it again, sometime soon. hopefully there'd be one durin uni orientation and I'd invite peeps to come star gazin with moi!] I love band concerts too.. they're fun and exciting =] lotsa lotsa fun and well.. being leo, I love da stage. =p I love band practices.. they make me forget that I have lotsa homework waitin for me and I can just immerse myself and enjoy playing.. I love my flute tutor [I met her in CHS! but no, can't get her to teach me anymore.. cos I'm working. but I'd probably get scores from her to practice] even till now, I can remember what she once said- why give me rotten apples when you have good ones? [translate- why aren't you giving it your best shot? I know you can do so much better] yup, she's really encouraging and I love her lessons. Enough for today~ continues sec 2 life some time soon ;) tata!
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Saturday, January 12, 2008
Hihi. Back from another week of work. I guess working is fine though I feel that I'd need something more stimulating.. something I can put all my heart and soul into doing. One thing I learnt is that when you're working, you really gotta be 'professional', meaning, your emotions shouldn't come into the picture. I kinda respect deejays because they can still sound so cheerful even when they're having a lousy day.
It's not that I don't want to upload some nice pics of what I've been doing and my fav places. But I'm having some prob with blogger.. maybe some other time then =]
Well.. some of my closest buddies are in NS now. It's not the end of the world or anything.. I wasn't crying but I did feel a little sad maybe because I can't chat all I want with them anymore. But hey, life's gonna get better =] absence makes da hearts grow fonder =p
I can't say that I'm looking forward to getting my results. In fact, I feel really guilt-ridden because I think I haven't done my best and I truly hate accepting that I can't do well because I know I can do well.. sigh, no matter what I say now won't change anything anymore so.. I'm conditioning myself to prepare for the worse. If I can't go uni, I can always go poly or something. Life's more than just studying, no? Where there's a will, there's a way. Even if I totally suck at studying, I'm sure I can contribute and make a difference in someone's life =]
It's not that I don't want to upload some nice pics of what I've been doing and my fav places. But I'm having some prob with blogger.. maybe some other time then =]
Well.. some of my closest buddies are in NS now. It's not the end of the world or anything.. I wasn't crying but I did feel a little sad maybe because I can't chat all I want with them anymore. But hey, life's gonna get better =] absence makes da hearts grow fonder =p
I can't say that I'm looking forward to getting my results. In fact, I feel really guilt-ridden because I think I haven't done my best and I truly hate accepting that I can't do well because I know I can do well.. sigh, no matter what I say now won't change anything anymore so.. I'm conditioning myself to prepare for the worse. If I can't go uni, I can always go poly or something. Life's more than just studying, no? Where there's a will, there's a way. Even if I totally suck at studying, I'm sure I can contribute and make a difference in someone's life =]
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
We show our love to those we care about by hugging and holding and stroking. We can be caring without speaking through touch. A touch can convey compassion, admiration, adoration..not merely just sexual interest. Touch sends a message of reassurance and support, intimacy (as a gentle stroking of the forearm, brush of the cheek), safety (as an arm around the shoulder) or relaxation (as a shoulder massage) among other feelings.
Touch is a powerful medium for communicating love and caring.
Touch reinforces and helps to establish the emotional and physical closeness, the bond we feel with one another. Holding hands, kissing, embracing, cuddling, snuggling, stroking, walking arm-in-arm, arms around each other's shoulders, arms around other's waists, are all ways of communicating emotional love to one's partner. All realtionships, be they a love realtionship or friendship are enhanced by gentle physical touch.
We have long known the emotional power that touch conveys. Studies have shown that babies who are held, hugged and kissed develop a healthier emotional life than those who are left for long periods of time without physical contact. Physical contact and reassurance make a stronger healthier relationship, not only with children, but also with adults. Touching lovingly is is reassuring, nurturing and strengthens our relationships and ourselves as persons. It also greatly can relieve stress, and improve our physical health.
Expressing Love through Touch
A touch may take time, or be short, similar to a whisper. A back rub takes time, but by placing your hand on your partner's shoulder as you pour a cup of coffee takes only a moment. Sitting close to each other on the couch as you watch television, requires no time, but may communicate your love loudly. Snuggling together sends messages of warmth and belonging, being loved and protected, giving security.
Touching your partner as you walk through the room where he/she is sitting takes only a moment, such as a gentle brush on a cheek, yet conveys affection, love and enouragement. Touching each other as you leave the house and when you return may be only a kiss or hug, but will speak volumes to your love, without saying a word.
Touch enhances a relationship.
A loving touch expresses love, warmth, caring. A soft physical touch can be a powerful language of love. No words are spoken, yet a communication of love is exchanged. Touch communicates silently from one to another: "I care about you" "I love you" "You are important to me" "I am here for you". Touch with your heart wide open.
Touch conveys so much using so little, and when combined with eye contact, a smile, a warm tone of voice, the impact is even greater, and has a magical quality all it's own. Even though that may not always be possible, sometimes it's simply the touch itself that has the magic.
By closing the space with your loved one, there is no room in that moment for disagreements or grudges--only acceptance, understanding, sympathy, love and caring.
Touch is a powerful medium for communicating love and caring.
Touch reinforces and helps to establish the emotional and physical closeness, the bond we feel with one another. Holding hands, kissing, embracing, cuddling, snuggling, stroking, walking arm-in-arm, arms around each other's shoulders, arms around other's waists, are all ways of communicating emotional love to one's partner. All realtionships, be they a love realtionship or friendship are enhanced by gentle physical touch.
We have long known the emotional power that touch conveys. Studies have shown that babies who are held, hugged and kissed develop a healthier emotional life than those who are left for long periods of time without physical contact. Physical contact and reassurance make a stronger healthier relationship, not only with children, but also with adults. Touching lovingly is is reassuring, nurturing and strengthens our relationships and ourselves as persons. It also greatly can relieve stress, and improve our physical health.
Expressing Love through Touch
A touch may take time, or be short, similar to a whisper. A back rub takes time, but by placing your hand on your partner's shoulder as you pour a cup of coffee takes only a moment. Sitting close to each other on the couch as you watch television, requires no time, but may communicate your love loudly. Snuggling together sends messages of warmth and belonging, being loved and protected, giving security.
Touching your partner as you walk through the room where he/she is sitting takes only a moment, such as a gentle brush on a cheek, yet conveys affection, love and enouragement. Touching each other as you leave the house and when you return may be only a kiss or hug, but will speak volumes to your love, without saying a word.
Touch enhances a relationship.
A loving touch expresses love, warmth, caring. A soft physical touch can be a powerful language of love. No words are spoken, yet a communication of love is exchanged. Touch communicates silently from one to another: "I care about you" "I love you" "You are important to me" "I am here for you". Touch with your heart wide open.
Touch conveys so much using so little, and when combined with eye contact, a smile, a warm tone of voice, the impact is even greater, and has a magical quality all it's own. Even though that may not always be possible, sometimes it's simply the touch itself that has the magic.
By closing the space with your loved one, there is no room in that moment for disagreements or grudges--only acceptance, understanding, sympathy, love and caring.
The Art [and science] of kissing
Kissing is a complex behavior that requires significant muscular coordination; in fact, a total of thirty four muscles working cooperatively. The most important muscle involved is the orbicularis oris muscle, which is used to pucker the lips and informally known as the kissing muscle. The tongue can also be an important part of the kiss. Lips have many nerve endings so they are sensitive to touch.
See? Kissing is such a wonderful exercise ^_^ *muacks
Intimacy
We all desire intimacy with another living soul, but we also fear it. None the less, we all continue to seek intimacy with another soul. Intimacy can spiritually bond two souls on the highest level. It has the ability to deepen the intrinsic union of two souls, building their relationship in a way that otherwise would be impossible to achieve. The secret to unlocking this potential is in the intention that the couple brings to intimacy. Their desire must be exemplary. To transform it into an expression of the soul, their heart's true desire, they must be focused with total concentration on connecting with their partner, making it an experience of pure giving. Intimacy rooted in love deepens the couple's relationship, creating a level of closeness that can only be described as complete connection. A joining of the mind, body and spirit. The bonding between the two is the key, not just the physical gratification. Trust is the backbone of intimacy. Without trust, intimacy cannot occur. If you focus on giving, on bringing fulfillment, love and joy to your partner, you and your partner will be fulfilled.
Intimacy is an expression of giving and connection, of love in it's most ultimate level. Communication and intimacy between partners takes place on various levels: Verbal, physical, emotional and also in the fullness of silence. We can sit in a room with our partner, feeling his or her presence, though we may each be engaged in separate activities. It's the ability to communicate with our partner without speaking, saying much with just a touch or a look. This kind of intimacy is a deep richer experience than the limitation of verbal, physical and emotional. Beyond physically being together in the same room is the quiet comfort of caring love which transcends time and space. In this we experience the fulfillment of the loved one even when separated, while acknowledging the emotion of missing the partner's physical presence.
In the physical aspect of intimacy, we encompass lesser intimate acts like holding hands as well as more intimate acts. You do not have to have a physical relationship with someone in order to be intimate with him or her. While physical intimacy is certainly a part of most romantic relationships, it is important to have emotional intimacy as well. Emotional intimacy involves sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with another person in an open and honest way. Intimacy has sexual connotations, but it is much more than that. It includes all the different dimensions of our lives -- the physical, but also the social, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects as well. Intimacy is total life sharing.
Physical intimacy in a loving committed relationship with its fusion of love, play, magic, ecstasy, is life celebrating life. This intimate communion of making love may reveal the divine mystery rather than just simply be pleasurable, entertaining sensations. What makes the difference is our intentions, our love, and the attitudes that we bring to this experience. If we hold a reverence for life, an awareness and respect of our mutual joining and individuality, we experience the other as none other than our very selves, the shared joy and intimacy of lovemaking is a spiritual meeting of the flesh and spirit, the joining of hearts and souls. The boundaries of a separate self can fall away and life is making love with life, intimately, together as one.
Kissing is a complex behavior that requires significant muscular coordination; in fact, a total of thirty four muscles working cooperatively. The most important muscle involved is the orbicularis oris muscle, which is used to pucker the lips and informally known as the kissing muscle. The tongue can also be an important part of the kiss. Lips have many nerve endings so they are sensitive to touch.
See? Kissing is such a wonderful exercise ^_^ *muacks
Intimacy
We all desire intimacy with another living soul, but we also fear it. None the less, we all continue to seek intimacy with another soul. Intimacy can spiritually bond two souls on the highest level. It has the ability to deepen the intrinsic union of two souls, building their relationship in a way that otherwise would be impossible to achieve. The secret to unlocking this potential is in the intention that the couple brings to intimacy. Their desire must be exemplary. To transform it into an expression of the soul, their heart's true desire, they must be focused with total concentration on connecting with their partner, making it an experience of pure giving. Intimacy rooted in love deepens the couple's relationship, creating a level of closeness that can only be described as complete connection. A joining of the mind, body and spirit. The bonding between the two is the key, not just the physical gratification. Trust is the backbone of intimacy. Without trust, intimacy cannot occur. If you focus on giving, on bringing fulfillment, love and joy to your partner, you and your partner will be fulfilled.
Intimacy is an expression of giving and connection, of love in it's most ultimate level. Communication and intimacy between partners takes place on various levels: Verbal, physical, emotional and also in the fullness of silence. We can sit in a room with our partner, feeling his or her presence, though we may each be engaged in separate activities. It's the ability to communicate with our partner without speaking, saying much with just a touch or a look. This kind of intimacy is a deep richer experience than the limitation of verbal, physical and emotional. Beyond physically being together in the same room is the quiet comfort of caring love which transcends time and space. In this we experience the fulfillment of the loved one even when separated, while acknowledging the emotion of missing the partner's physical presence.
In the physical aspect of intimacy, we encompass lesser intimate acts like holding hands as well as more intimate acts. You do not have to have a physical relationship with someone in order to be intimate with him or her. While physical intimacy is certainly a part of most romantic relationships, it is important to have emotional intimacy as well. Emotional intimacy involves sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with another person in an open and honest way. Intimacy has sexual connotations, but it is much more than that. It includes all the different dimensions of our lives -- the physical, but also the social, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects as well. Intimacy is total life sharing.
Physical intimacy in a loving committed relationship with its fusion of love, play, magic, ecstasy, is life celebrating life. This intimate communion of making love may reveal the divine mystery rather than just simply be pleasurable, entertaining sensations. What makes the difference is our intentions, our love, and the attitudes that we bring to this experience. If we hold a reverence for life, an awareness and respect of our mutual joining and individuality, we experience the other as none other than our very selves, the shared joy and intimacy of lovemaking is a spiritual meeting of the flesh and spirit, the joining of hearts and souls. The boundaries of a separate self can fall away and life is making love with life, intimately, together as one.
Be More Courageous
Aristotle believed, and I think correctly, that courage is the first of the human virtues, because it makes the others possible. Courage is the ability to exercise your free will and make things happen in the face of setbacks and unforeseen challenges, by selecting healthy role models and mentors and taking daily actions that define who we are to become.We are not what society and randomness have made us. We area nation of immigrants, most of whom arrived with nothingmore than hope and a willingness to do whatever it takes to achieve our own dream. We are what we have chosen to be from the depth of our very souls and being. We are self-made based upon our beliefs. No significant decisions -- personal or business -- haveever been undertaken without the attendant feelings ofanxiety, uncertainty and guilt. The commitment to wade through these inevitable crises is the meaning of courage. To gain courage is to change your beliefs about what you deserve and about what's possible with patience and persistence.Get out of your comfort zone and stretch your limitations this week!-- Denis
More Motivation..
Here's a positive affirmation you may wish to write down andrecite to yourself..."I am breaking through whatever self-imposed limitations Ihave allowed to stand in my way. Through inspired action Iam on the right track and experiencing achievement andpersonal fulfillment as I move forward in the pursuit of the goals I have set for myself."-- It's your life, LIVE BIG! Josh Hinds :-)
"Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave."
Aristotle believed, and I think correctly, that courage is the first of the human virtues, because it makes the others possible. Courage is the ability to exercise your free will and make things happen in the face of setbacks and unforeseen challenges, by selecting healthy role models and mentors and taking daily actions that define who we are to become.We are not what society and randomness have made us. We area nation of immigrants, most of whom arrived with nothingmore than hope and a willingness to do whatever it takes to achieve our own dream. We are what we have chosen to be from the depth of our very souls and being. We are self-made based upon our beliefs. No significant decisions -- personal or business -- haveever been undertaken without the attendant feelings ofanxiety, uncertainty and guilt. The commitment to wade through these inevitable crises is the meaning of courage. To gain courage is to change your beliefs about what you deserve and about what's possible with patience and persistence.Get out of your comfort zone and stretch your limitations this week!-- Denis
More Motivation..
Here's a positive affirmation you may wish to write down andrecite to yourself..."I am breaking through whatever self-imposed limitations Ihave allowed to stand in my way. Through inspired action Iam on the right track and experiencing achievement andpersonal fulfillment as I move forward in the pursuit of the goals I have set for myself."-- It's your life, LIVE BIG! Josh Hinds :-)
"Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave."
Saturday, January 05, 2008
yes. I'm so mom-sick suddenly. I just thought of my mom.. maybe I deny that I don't wanna see her but I really wish we could talk again
I remember the best time I had with her.. when I was four, I was crying quite badly. [Haha.. inherited that from her] And she just listened to me cry and talk jibberish =p haha.. and I remember looking at her gold bangles and asking why are they sparkling [haha.. my eyes were teary..]
I remember the best time I had with her.. when I was four, I was crying quite badly. [Haha.. inherited that from her] And she just listened to me cry and talk jibberish =p haha.. and I remember looking at her gold bangles and asking why are they sparkling [haha.. my eyes were teary..]
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
