I'm glad that things are ok now =]





life is short, enjoy while you can!

Laughter and tears are memories of yesterdays.. which have turned to dust and ashes..

Love can be a beautiful thing..

yet it can also be so painful when things are not meant to be. [so there really is such a thing as destiny?]

I admit, I was and still am.. a romantic idealist. I thought things could be just the way I wanted them to be. But I guess my own wilfulness got the better of me. Sigh.. reminds me of the song by Stacy Kent..where she sang, 'Loves the same old sad sensation..'




there's never a right time to say goodbye

To Be or Not to Be, that IS the question..

Well, I pretty much thought out clearly that I'm either gonna be doing something that shape the environment or something that shape the new generations to come. I think both are decent and noble jobs because it allows me to help mould what's around me [hopefully into something better] so what do you guys think?

say,

a)Architecture and other related fields
b)Teaching

Gimme some advice? *hugs thanks.

well.. I am an ENFP.. anyone wanna marry me? =p

If you know ahead of time what those preferred personality traits are you have the knowledge necessary to make a marriage last and flourish; actually, you have the type knowledge to make any relationship grow.
Here is the ENFP way. You will see the many and varied personality traits that ENFPs naturally show as they relate to others.

If you are an ENFP let this self-knowledge help and guide you in your marriage and family life. If you are in relationship with an ENFP allow the wonder of what you learn here to guide your understanding of and responses to how ENFPs behave.

The ENFP will bring much energy to their marriage/relationships
The ENFP will have no difficulty apologizing to mate and children when needed
The ENFP is very friendly, outgoing in most situations
The ENFP is strongly communicative and NEEDS it from a mate
ENFPs can be very harmonious in relationships/li>
ENFPs enjoy romance in all ways…they NEED romance
The ENFPs live in the world of the imagination
ENFPs will have no difficulty complementing you and praise is second nature to them
The ENFP tends to be very emotional
The ENFP under stress may become critical and withdrawn
The ENFP will incorporate fantasy and sex
The ENFP can be very sensual
The ENFPs are loving and warm”
The ENFP is always searching for meaning
The ENFP needs positive feedback and response from a mate
ENFPs can be overprotective with children
Many ENFPs are almost psychic in their ability to “know” what you are thinking
The ENFP has a tendency to continue to search for the “perfect” relationship in and out of marriage

ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity & Behavior Personality Traits
On the Personality & Marriage section of this site the statement was made that all relationships will encounter conflict. It is part of being human. How we experience conflict, react to it and move to solve it are instinctive. So we have some power and control and will INSTINCTIVELY and NATURALLY use our personality traits in a conflict resolution activity, at least some of the time. The following personality traits are keys to understanding the ENFP approach to conflict in relationships/marriage.
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ENFP Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:
ENFP will likely feel uncomfortable, misunderstood in conflict
ENFP will likely take the conflict personally
ENFP will desire to find a harmonious solution to the problem
ENFP will not usually take the most logical approach to finding the solution
ENFP can be extremely emotional in conflict
ENFP may prefer to avoid the conflict
ENFP may determine initially that holding onto the marriage/relationship is more important than the conflict
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits
ENFP will naturally consider the feelings of others in conflict resolution activity
ENFP will treat all parties kindly and fairly
ENFP will focus on people centered issues
ENFP will not typically look for logical solutions to the conflict
ENFP will search for the idealistic, romantic, optimistic, beneficial (harmony) solution
The ENFP will likely avoid any criticism in their conflict resolution activity, unless stressed
ENFP can be very creative in conflict resolution activity
ENFP Likely Positive Solutions Will Beul>
Fair, reasonable, considerate
Idealistic, naïve, unrealistic
Perceptive, discerning
Harmonious, cordial, agreeable, affable
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)
ENFP will typically overlook more logical solutions
ENFP may take the situation extremely personally
ENFP may not see the details of the situation
ENFP may begin by talking all around the central problem
ENFPs are likely to decide too quickly because of the pain
ENFP will probably discount, ignore, disregard, and overlook solutions that are logic-centered
ENFP may overstate, embellish, the degree of hurt feelings
ENFPs may ignore the situation if it hurts too much
ENFPs may not state their thinking directly, in details thus can be difficult to follow.

for cat lovers~

Your cat's tail is an indicator of its mood and if you observe the tail's movements, you can learn many things from these signals. There are a number of tail signals that the cat can display:

Tail curves gently down and then up again at the tip: This is a peaceful, relaxed cat.
Tail raised slightly and softly curved: Something has caught your cat's interest.
Tail held erect but with the tip tilted over: Your cat is in a friendly, greeting mood but may have some reservations.
Tail fully erect with the tip stiffly vertical: This is a very intense greeting display and has no reservations.
Tail lowered fully and possibly even tucked between the hind legs: The cat feels defeated or submissive.
Tail lowered and fluffed out: The cat is showing fear.
Tail swished violently from side to side: This signal indicates that the cat is very angry.
Tail held still, but with tip twitching: This signal shows the cat is mildly upset.
Tail held erect with its whole length quivered: The gesture appears to show happiness or friendliness usually given to its owner as a greeting. It is also the same type of gesture used in territory marking (used by whole males).
Tail held to one side: This is displayed by a female cat in heat.
Tail held straight and fully bristled: This signal is one of an aggressive cat.
Tail arched and bristled: This signal is one of the defensive cat.

http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Bluffs/9224/signals.html

Lesbian To dream that you are a lesbian (but you are not in your waking life), signifies a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and passion. You are comfortable with your sexuality and femininity.

I dreamt that I was a lesbian.. haha

Haven't been updating much.. but there's nothing much to update anyway. Currently listening to satin jazz.. feeling v relaxed. I had a great Saturday. Thanks guys.. for loving me =] *hugs

Much happier n less stressed. I guess it's good. One doesn't need all the money in the world to be happy..

lalala.. happily in love~