When Change Is The Only Constant.

well.. I am an ENFP.. anyone wanna marry me? =p

If you know ahead of time what those preferred personality traits are you have the knowledge necessary to make a marriage last and flourish; actually, you have the type knowledge to make any relationship grow.
Here is the ENFP way. You will see the many and varied personality traits that ENFPs naturally show as they relate to others.

If you are an ENFP let this self-knowledge help and guide you in your marriage and family life. If you are in relationship with an ENFP allow the wonder of what you learn here to guide your understanding of and responses to how ENFPs behave.

The ENFP will bring much energy to their marriage/relationships
The ENFP will have no difficulty apologizing to mate and children when needed
The ENFP is very friendly, outgoing in most situations
The ENFP is strongly communicative and NEEDS it from a mate
ENFPs can be very harmonious in relationships/li>
ENFPs enjoy romance in all ways…they NEED romance
The ENFPs live in the world of the imagination
ENFPs will have no difficulty complementing you and praise is second nature to them
The ENFP tends to be very emotional
The ENFP under stress may become critical and withdrawn
The ENFP will incorporate fantasy and sex
The ENFP can be very sensual
The ENFPs are loving and warm”
The ENFP is always searching for meaning
The ENFP needs positive feedback and response from a mate
ENFPs can be overprotective with children
Many ENFPs are almost psychic in their ability to “know” what you are thinking
The ENFP has a tendency to continue to search for the “perfect” relationship in and out of marriage

ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity & Behavior Personality Traits
On the Personality & Marriage section of this site the statement was made that all relationships will encounter conflict. It is part of being human. How we experience conflict, react to it and move to solve it are instinctive. So we have some power and control and will INSTINCTIVELY and NATURALLY use our personality traits in a conflict resolution activity, at least some of the time. The following personality traits are keys to understanding the ENFP approach to conflict in relationships/marriage.
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ENFP Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:
ENFP will likely feel uncomfortable, misunderstood in conflict
ENFP will likely take the conflict personally
ENFP will desire to find a harmonious solution to the problem
ENFP will not usually take the most logical approach to finding the solution
ENFP can be extremely emotional in conflict
ENFP may prefer to avoid the conflict
ENFP may determine initially that holding onto the marriage/relationship is more important than the conflict
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits
ENFP will naturally consider the feelings of others in conflict resolution activity
ENFP will treat all parties kindly and fairly
ENFP will focus on people centered issues
ENFP will not typically look for logical solutions to the conflict
ENFP will search for the idealistic, romantic, optimistic, beneficial (harmony) solution
The ENFP will likely avoid any criticism in their conflict resolution activity, unless stressed
ENFP can be very creative in conflict resolution activity
ENFP Likely Positive Solutions Will Beul>
Fair, reasonable, considerate
Idealistic, naïve, unrealistic
Perceptive, discerning
Harmonious, cordial, agreeable, affable
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)
ENFP will typically overlook more logical solutions
ENFP may take the situation extremely personally
ENFP may not see the details of the situation
ENFP may begin by talking all around the central problem
ENFPs are likely to decide too quickly because of the pain
ENFP will probably discount, ignore, disregard, and overlook solutions that are logic-centered
ENFP may overstate, embellish, the degree of hurt feelings
ENFPs may ignore the situation if it hurts too much
ENFPs may not state their thinking directly, in details thus can be difficult to follow.