Tuesday, April 29, 2008

I'm glad that things are ok now =]





life is short, enjoy while you can!

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Laughter and tears are memories of yesterdays.. which have turned to dust and ashes..

Love can be a beautiful thing..

yet it can also be so painful when things are not meant to be. [so there really is such a thing as destiny?]

I admit, I was and still am.. a romantic idealist. I thought things could be just the way I wanted them to be. But I guess my own wilfulness got the better of me. Sigh.. reminds me of the song by Stacy Kent..where she sang, 'Loves the same old sad sensation..'




there's never a right time to say goodbye

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

To Be or Not to Be, that IS the question..

Well, I pretty much thought out clearly that I'm either gonna be doing something that shape the environment or something that shape the new generations to come. I think both are decent and noble jobs because it allows me to help mould what's around me [hopefully into something better] so what do you guys think?

say,

a)Architecture and other related fields
b)Teaching

Gimme some advice? *hugs thanks.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

well.. I am an ENFP.. anyone wanna marry me? =p

If you know ahead of time what those preferred personality traits are you have the knowledge necessary to make a marriage last and flourish; actually, you have the type knowledge to make any relationship grow.
Here is the ENFP way. You will see the many and varied personality traits that ENFPs naturally show as they relate to others.


If you are an ENFP let this self-knowledge help and guide you in your marriage and family life. If you are in relationship with an ENFP allow the wonder of what you learn here to guide your understanding of and responses to how ENFPs behave.

The ENFP will bring much energy to their marriage/relationships
The ENFP will have no difficulty apologizing to mate and children when needed
The ENFP is very friendly, outgoing in most situations
The ENFP is strongly communicative and NEEDS it from a mate
ENFPs can be very harmonious in relationships/li>
ENFPs enjoy romance in all ways…they NEED romance
The ENFPs live in the world of the imagination
ENFPs will have no difficulty complementing you and praise is second nature to them
The ENFP tends to be very emotional
The ENFP under stress may become critical and withdrawn
The ENFP will incorporate fantasy and sex
The ENFP can be very sensual
The ENFPs are loving and warm”
The ENFP is always searching for meaning
The ENFP needs positive feedback and response from a mate
ENFPs can be overprotective with children
Many ENFPs are almost psychic in their ability to “know” what you are thinking
The ENFP has a tendency to continue to search for the “perfect” relationship in and out of marriage

ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity & Behavior Personality Traits
On the
Personality & Marriage section of this site the statement was made that all relationships will encounter conflict. It is part of being human. How we experience conflict, react to it and move to solve it are instinctive. So we have some power and control and will INSTINCTIVELY and NATURALLY use our personality traits in a conflict resolution activity, at least some of the time. The following personality traits are keys to understanding the ENFP approach to conflict in relationships/marriage.
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ENFP Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:
ENFP will likely feel uncomfortable, misunderstood in conflict
ENFP will likely take the conflict personally
ENFP will desire to find a harmonious solution to the problem
ENFP will not usually take the most logical approach to finding the solution
ENFP can be extremely emotional in conflict
ENFP may prefer to avoid the conflict
ENFP may determine initially that holding onto the marriage/relationship is more important than the conflict
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits
ENFP will naturally consider the feelings of others in conflict resolution activity
ENFP will treat all parties kindly and fairly
ENFP will focus on people centered issues
ENFP will not typically look for logical solutions to the conflict
ENFP will search for the idealistic, romantic, optimistic, beneficial (harmony) solution
The ENFP will likely avoid any criticism in their conflict resolution activity, unless stressed
ENFP can be very creative in conflict resolution activity
ENFP Likely Positive Solutions Will Beul>
Fair, reasonable, considerate
Idealistic, naïve, unrealistic
Perceptive, discerning
Harmonious, cordial, agreeable, affable
ENFP Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)
ENFP will typically overlook more logical solutions
ENFP may take the situation extremely personally
ENFP may not see the details of the situation
ENFP may begin by talking all around the central problem
ENFPs are likely to decide too quickly because of the pain
ENFP will probably discount, ignore, disregard, and overlook solutions that are logic-centered
ENFP may overstate, embellish, the degree of hurt feelings
ENFPs may ignore the situation if it hurts too much
ENFPs may not state their thinking directly, in details thus can be difficult to follow.

Wednesday, April 09, 2008

for cat lovers~

Your cat's tail is an indicator of its mood and if you observe the tail's movements, you can learn many things from these signals. There are a number of tail signals that the cat can display:

Tail curves gently down and then up again at the tip: This is a peaceful, relaxed cat.
Tail raised slightly and softly curved: Something has caught your cat's interest.
Tail held erect but with the tip tilted over: Your cat is in a friendly, greeting mood but may have some reservations.
Tail fully erect with the tip stiffly vertical: This is a very intense greeting display and has no reservations.
Tail lowered fully and possibly even tucked between the hind legs: The cat feels defeated or submissive.
Tail lowered and fluffed out: The cat is showing fear.
Tail swished violently from side to side: This signal indicates that the cat is very angry.
Tail held still, but with tip twitching: This signal shows the cat is mildly upset.
Tail held erect with its whole length quivered: The gesture appears to show happiness or friendliness usually given to its owner as a greeting. It is also the same type of gesture used in territory marking (used by whole males).
Tail held to one side: This is displayed by a female cat in heat.
Tail held straight and fully bristled: This signal is one of an aggressive cat.
Tail arched and bristled: This signal is one of the defensive cat.


http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Bluffs/9224/signals.html

Monday, April 07, 2008

Lesbian To dream that you are a lesbian (but you are not in your waking life), signifies a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and passion. You are comfortable with your sexuality and femininity.

I dreamt that I was a lesbian.. haha

Haven't been updating much.. but there's nothing much to update anyway. Currently listening to satin jazz.. feeling v relaxed. I had a great Saturday. Thanks guys.. for loving me =] *hugs

Much happier n less stressed. I guess it's good. One doesn't need all the money in the world to be happy..

lalala.. happily in love~

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

What kinda lover am I?

The Steady

When it comes to your love life, you appreciate the romantic gifts: Roses, chocolates and other sweet surprises. But ultimately what touch your heart most are those intangible little gestures of love, like how he pays attention to your wants and needs, really listens to you and is always there to share your joys and tears.You're down-to-earth, and that's great because you don't expect the impossible from your partner or a fairy-tale relationship. Sure, you're super glad to have found someone to share your life with, but at the same time you need your own space too.Still, keep feeding your relationship with romance day after day and you can strengthen it even more: Give him a kiss, a cuddle and ask him how he's doing. Indulge in fancy dinner dates and surprise him with a Valentine card every now and then. The more attention you give to your relationship, the closer you'll become.

Is he Mr. Right?
You scored - 8/10
Congrats! You've found a real sweetheart whom you can trust, love and feel safe with. But you also realize that, alas, real life relationships aren't as simple as happily-ever-after fairy tales, and it takes lots of communication, trust, compromise and learning about each other to keep the love and passion going strong. Keep communicating, be encouraging and never take each other for granted. You look like you're made for each other – go for it!

Monday, March 24, 2008

1. At what age do you wish to marry?
Before 27.. it’s awfully late aleady. I don’t wanna have kids with problems and problems because of my negligence.

2. Have you given your first kiss away?
First kiss means lip to lip? No. On cheek? Yea..

3. If you were to be stranded on a desert island, who are the 3 buddies you would take with you? Why?
I’m not gonna tell. =] I mean.. I’ll have to ask if they wanna come along.

4. Where is the place that you want to go the most?
A place without suffering.

5. If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?Unlimited wishes – Duh.

6. Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after the rain?
It’s scientifically proven that there is a possibility of it happening. Therefore, I believe it.

7. What are you afraid to lose the most now?
My sanity and myself.

8. If you win $1 million, what would you do?
I’d hire the best financial analysts and invest a huge portion to get back more millions and then think about what to do.

9. If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
I already did.

10. What is your favorite quote?
That’s the way it’s meant to be. [haha.. good to use when things don’t go your way ;]]

11. What are the requirements that you wish from your
other half?
Respect, sensitivity, sensibility, space, understanding, patience. [guess I don’’t have to go on.. it’s kinda difficult to find a guy like that.. and a guy that likes
me]

12. Which type of person do you hate the most?Irresponsible type.

13. What is your ambition?
Still trying to work that out.

14. If you have a fault, would you rather the people around you point out to you or would you rather they keep quiet?
Point out but you don’t have to scream or anything. I don’t do that when I point stuff out to people.. [of course, I know some people just suck at being tactful so.. ]

15. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
To stay alive and healthy [That’s da most important, no?]

16. Are you a shopaholic or not?
If I had the cash.. yea.

17. Find a word to describe the person who tagged you.
I wasn’t tagged.

18. If you have a chance. Which part of your character you would like to change?
My immaturity at times?

19. Is there anything that you have done that makes you regret?
Yea.. I guess. But I choose to put them behind. Don’t particularly wanna keep feeling regretful, you know?
Friends? What friends? I once thought I could depend and trust my FRIENDS. How many times have they failed me? I can't remember.. too many times.. too ugly. I don't dare say I'm the best friend people can have.. But whatever I promise, I deliver. If I can't, I'll make up to it.

Now? Maybe my dad's right all along. Maybe true friends don't exist in this materialistic world anymore. Friends nowadays know how to make use of each other. They call it MUTUAL BENEFIT. Nice term to use huh. I don't know.. but I don't think friends should be like that. I thought friends are suppose to share with each other their joy and sorrows. Why is it that I can't share my sorrows with others? What happened to my FRIENDS? Or maybe it's my own problem. [Seems like only counsellors lend me their ears..]

From now on, I'll face this world.. WITH OR WITHOUT THE SO-CALLED FRIENDS. Friends, I hope you don't feel hurt. Cos feeling hurt is not gonna help anyway right. I'm not demanding things from you guys. I just.. don't know what a true friend is anymore.

Are you my true friend?

Gee.. is that what growing up means? If it is, I'm telling you it sucks.

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Hi there. I apologise for not updating earlier. Quite a lot's been going on and I'm a born procrastinator. Anyway, here I am.. let's get on.

My results?
You sure you're that interested to know? Well.. it's not all that pretty but I can live with it.

Uni
Yea, that's the part that gave me headaches. With my results.. I can't go too far up..But I don't really deserve to go all the way down [sorry if it sounds a bit cryptic] I'm just trying to say that I can't really qualify for those really good courses but my results really aren't all that bad. In the end, I've at least decided to make a clean break from sciences. I'm not too sure if what I'm doing is right. But I'll move on from here and make the best out of whatever comes my way. Special thanks to so many people who gave me their advice and stood by me when I felt lost and upset.

Love
I don't know what's happening to it but I guess it's still ok and I'm not complaining.


Blog
I searched over 4000 blogskins but could find one that's better. Oh.. and I've changed the songs.. These are my favourites. Life for rent is really a great song! And to that special someone who's not so sure if I'm the one for him, 'wherever you go, whatever you do, I'll be right here waiting for you'

I'm still feeling lost.. not knowing what I should do.. who should I be. Lots of questions with no answers. I still feel imprisoned after 18 years.. living life my way. [really appreciate that special someone who understands my situation and is patient with me]

As always, I'll take my optimism with me wherever I go, whatever I do.. hopefully everything will be ok =]

Love,

Jas

Sunday, March 02, 2008




You Are a Witch (or Warlock)



You are deviously brilliant and a perfect manipulator.

You somehow always end up getting what you want - without anyone knowing you're working behind the scenes.

Crafty and cunning, you can work your way out of any jam.

And it's easy for you to get people to do what you want, whether you're working for good or evil.



Your greatest power: Mind control



Your greatest weakness: Making people your puppets



You play well with: Ghosts

Monday, February 25, 2008

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I nearly lost my phone!! *sobs. Went to the toilet and left my hp on da toilet roll thing there. =[

Fortunately, some kind lady gave it to the office! ^_^ tqtqtqtqtqtq *hugs

haha.. I'm kinda lucky anyway.. happy-go-lucky~~

Friday, February 22, 2008




Your Dosha is Vata



Creative and restless, you take in all of life's pleasures (maybe a little too much!).

You're quick witted and very talkative, but you also tend to have a spotty memory.

You tend to get very into ideas, people, and lifestyles... but only for a short time.

It's difficult to hold your attention, and you sometimes feel with what life has to offer.



With friends: You are very uncomfortable in new situations or with new people



In love: You fall in and out of love very easily



To achieve more balance: Live in a warm climate and spend some quiet time in nature






You are a Total Romantic



For you, love is like a fairy tale.

Or magic. Or a Meg Ryan movie.

Problem is, you sort of want all three.



You bring the spark in the relationship

In turn, you expect your guy to keep the fire burning

Not a bad deal, as long as you find the right Prince.






The Part of You That No One Sees



You are innocent, sweet, and young at heart.

You present a purity that many people find appealing.

However, you are often tired of people treating you like a child.



Underneath it all, you enjoy being babied and pampered.

You have been known to feign inexperience to get out of sticky situations.

You fear getting old and losing your childlike charms.






You Are a Boxer Puppy



Energetic, playful and good with kids.

You've also got a wild spirit that can't be trained or tamed.






Your Inner Child Is Naughty



Like a child, you tend to discount social rules.

It's just too much fun to break the rules!

You love trouble - and it seems that trouble loves you.

And no matter what, you refuse to grow up!






You Need Some Blue in Your Life



Blue will make you feel calm, intelligent, and confident.

And with a little blue, you will project an aura of sincerity and loyalty.

If you want wisdom, you've got to get a little blue in your life!



For extra punch: Combine blue with brown or green



The downside of blue: Blue can make you seem more conservative and reserved than you are



The consequences of more blue in your life:



You will feel more open to the world around you

You will have a broader and richer perspective on life

You will be able to find solitude, even in the most hectic times






You Are a Good Friend Because You're Loyal



You stick with your friends no matter what, even if you feel like they're doing the wrong thing.

You believe in letting people figure out their own path in life. It's not your place to interfere.



And part of your loyalty means that you'll do a lot for your friends. You definitely go the extra mile.

You'll even do great things for friends without them asking. After all, that's what friendship is all about.



You are truly a friend for life. And you have friends you've known since you were a kid.

Your friends can count on you to do a favor, remember a birthday, or just be there to listen.



Your friends need you most when: They can't turn to anyone else



You really can't be friends with: Fickle people who change friends quickly



Your friendship quote: "Friendship doubles your joys, and divides your sorrows."






You Should Learn Chinese



Surprised? You shouldn't be - Chinese is perfect for an ambitious person like you.

You're a natural entrepreneur, and a billion people are waiting to do business with you!



prob is.. I already learnt chinese?

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Which Instrument are you?

Clarinet
You are quiet, reserved, but very creative. A lot of people don't seem to understand you because you have your own 'beat'. You enjoy both the light and dark side of life, and sometimes this comes off as a little creepy. You are sometimes too quiet, you need to learn to speak up!!! You are very intreperative and creative in your workplace/activities and tend to be a good follower. You often dislike confrontation and would rather just forget problems, as opposed to fighting or talking about them. You love to read and write, and love to look very 'Posh'. Although you are often misunderstood, you are undoubtably cool.
hi.. it's been a week.

I had a mini retreat [meaning.. off da com and off da phone.. basically, having my alone time because I'm consistently receiving stimuli from my external surrounding] Slept 12 hours on Saturday.. it felt great and I'm physically recharged.

I also did quite a bit of thinkin about how I want to lead my life, what I want to do with it.. how I want to relate to the people around me.. my worries, issues and concerns.. it's not sorted out yet. But I guess, it all takes time. Some day, some how.. I hope I will grow to become a better me. Someone I'm proud to be.

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Hi people..

It's been quite some time, no? Today, I've enough energy to blog. Yes, I was really tired mentally, emotionally, physically-whatever. I had a good new year and things took an unexpected turn [for the good, I guess] I had a good outing with friends yesterday and =] I'm going to restart.. to rebuild everything. It's like a cycle. There will be times when I feel totally drained, when I can't move on the way I did.. I will start over. This time, I will have someone with me =] What's going to happen next? I don't know. But whatever comes, I shall face it with optimism and take the roller coaster ride.

Love,

Jas.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

hey there..

It's been a long time since I feel good about myself. To be honest, I've been self conscious because of my skin condition.. I don't wish to elaborate on it. In any case, I've decided to take an injection [it's poison] to make myself feel better. There are side effects in the long run.. but how long is long? IN DA LONG RUN, WE'RE ALL DEAD.. [thx to keynes] So.. in short.. I feel GOOD!

Bought lots of stuff today and they're all from my pocket [ouch] no.. actually it didn't feel painful. =p I'm a spendrift>> easy come easy go haha =D so.. I spent 230 on my glasses.. 110 on bag shoes socks.. another 7.50 on wallet.. all converse excluding glasses.. owed mum a hundred previously.. so i paid her.. and now I'm quite broke again. =[

but it's new year ^_^ lalala.. da happy happy new year for ppl to spend spend spend whee~~ haha.. i mean.. money can be made and so.. since I don't have much responsibility [meaning children or husband..] I might as well indulge on myself first =p

Here's an advert~

CNY promo ^_^ 2 readings for da price of 1! *terms and conditions apply

*1. it's on a first come first serve basis.
2.promo orders end on da 8th feb? [the last official holiday for CNY]
3. max. no. of cards is ten

Monday, January 28, 2008

Hi darlings..

I'm doing tarot readings as my part time job. I mean, I'm quite good with tarot readings.. so you guys can ask me if you want them..

Read:
Tarot cards are not evil.
Tarot cards don't tell da future [as in, it's just a projected future. Can be changed depending on what you do next.]
Tarot cards are not dangerous.

I've got customers already =] so.. whether you want it or not depends on you..

Blessed be.

PS: you can call and tell me or email me at simpeijun89@hotmail.com [I only do local ones.. meaning for Singaporeans as of now]

Thursday, January 24, 2008

ok.. let's talk about secondary life.. I guess those were the best years.. I was stressed but I wasn't stressed like till I wanna die. [at least I had time to play after school =D] In case you guys don't know, I was from XMS. There, I found my best friend, my nice gor, my best chinese teacher, my best buddies.. my best partner =]I took 10 subjects. It really wasn't v tough.. I loved everything I did. [can't understand why ppl don't like history. it's so interesting!] my results? uh.. it's not that I don't want to tell but some people might think that I'm proud or something. So, smart smart Jasmine now knows she can't just say everything she like. Ask if you're dying to know.. I will tell. hmm.. but I have results good enough to go any school ba. Sec 1-slack slack slack. =] well i can still remember the first day of school, meeting dorcas.. she looked really cool and aloof but she's a nice gal. it's da first year I see so many guys in da sch.. so yea, I had lotsa crushes =p but they were really just silly stuff and =] didn't really bother much about them. I joined band and I honestly honestly love flute [gg to buy one soon.] I love balance and through band, I learn about balancing..harmony, unity and lotsa nice things from various conductors. haha.. i remember the first camp and da seniors conducted a fire drill =_= but it was quite fun cos the SAJB peeps did it too. and you see a bunch of peeps at da parade sq all going 'what the hell?' and complaints rained in from neighbours da nxt morning. I love da games and da star gazing times.. it's really nice to lie at da parade sq there and look up at da starry sky [wanna do it again, sometime soon. hopefully there'd be one durin uni orientation and I'd invite peeps to come star gazin with moi!] I love band concerts too.. they're fun and exciting =] lotsa lotsa fun and well.. being leo, I love da stage. =p I love band practices.. they make me forget that I have lotsa homework waitin for me and I can just immerse myself and enjoy playing.. I love my flute tutor [I met her in CHS! but no, can't get her to teach me anymore.. cos I'm working. but I'd probably get scores from her to practice] even till now, I can remember what she once said- why give me rotten apples when you have good ones? [translate- why aren't you giving it your best shot? I know you can do so much better] yup, she's really encouraging and I love her lessons. Enough for today~ continues sec 2 life some time soon ;) tata!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008